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...Continue ReadingThis post, I want friends to focus on reading carefully.
Because if friends understand, it might change your life forever!
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Have you ever wondered... people always do things they don't want to do???
But won't do what I should do??
We know working out is good but not out???
We know that reading self-development is a good thing, but not?
I want to have a good shape. I know that dessert should stop but still eat???
Why why why???
Mine too. Friends asked me behind Mike...
How can I do it? Wake up at 4 am and read and write every day?
At First I didn't understand myself how I did it?
But when I sit and think about it.... Oh! I know.
What's the secret behind the scenes I can do!
And this technique can be used to "change behavior" in the world!
I'm ready...
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This technique is from Tony Robbins
There are 2 "driving force" human behavior.
1. Void pain - avoid pain!
2. Gain pleasure - focus on satisfaction!
Such as such as such as a
I want to eat cake because it's delicious (gain pleasure)
I want to win the Olympics for girls to scream (gain pleasure)
I want to move to study because I'm bored of this group of friends! (void pain)
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Most of them, void pain always have more driving than gain pleasure.
Such as such as such as a
I want to be rich because I want to help others (gain pleasure) with
I want to be rich because of poor life like this. I don't want it anymore! (void pain)
Of course void pain is stronger!!!
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But key concept is here!!!
In 1 Acts
There will always be 2 of these together!
Such as such as such as a
Want to have a good shape -- > gain pleasure
But when I have to enter fitness, I have to control food. It's pain!!!
What about when the driving force from pain! It's more than pleasure!!!
So this is why
So people don't do what they should do!
People don't exercise even though they know it's good.
People don't read books even though they know it's good.
People who don't follow their dreams even though they know how cool they are in the end.
That's because we void pain!
Pain of action!
Pain of doing it everyday!
Pain of our favorite dessert!
Pain of starving what's called drama!
Because we hurt by these things
So we don't do it!!!!!
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So what to do???
I want to follow my dream, but I have to do what it may pain.
How is it?
We have to tie "pain in that if we don't do it" what will happen!!!
Such as such as such as a
My goal (one thing) is bestseller
I have to wake up at 4 am every day to read to write.
It's so painful!!!
(pleasure that being bestseller is not enough to drive me)
But I tie it like this....
One day I woke up late
That day, I have to post quickly.
I didn't read the book... I posted it for a while... tough. Haha. I have been feeling bored all day!
This is my pain!
Hey if i wake up late! Post me for a while. Fans don't love you. You don't progress. Your goal is far away. Live all day. Not happy... do you want it? Wake up late!!!
That's it!
I woke up early right away!
Because of the energy pain
The pain that if I don't do if i wake up late! What will happen?
It drives me to be disciplined. Wake up at 4 am everyday.
To move forward to a big pleasure goal!!!
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So so
If you want to change any behavior in the world, think about these 2 things.
1. VOID PAIN (avoid pain)
2. Gain Pleasure (heading for satisfaction)
If we wanted to do something but didn't!
So there must be pain deep
Find it out
And change it. What if we didn't do it???
Let it be the pain of not doing
To Drive, let us head to target!!!!
Is it ok???
Good morning.
Un+Chirdpong (cuddle, cheid pong)
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(Ps: update from original post 16 Jan 15)
* void pain most of them are stronger than gain pleasure.
Repeat, most of them! But it's not always so!
Here are 1 reasons why we always have great successful people go through life crisis before.
But it doesn't have to be. People never been in crisis can succeed?
This is all about "the power of story" - if you are interested, I will go deep about this later.Translated